Things that happened in your past relationships shouldn't dictate how you treat someone in your current relationship.
Every single person is different. They come with their own set of pros and cons. There is absolutely no need to drag someone else's baggage into a new relationship and make them pay for it.
I completely understand that scars caused by others don't fade quite as quickly as we would wish, but picking old and unrelated battles just creates unnecessary issues.
Try to distinguish issues as past and present and recognize when to let the past be the past and you'll see how much easier it is to build something new and untouchable.
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